Author 作者: 尤霈琳 Edeline Yu

通常人很少会 承认自己是脆弱的，因为家庭、社会的典型规范和教育一直以来都是灌输我们：人必须强起来，才能够实在地生活，才能够面对生活上的人事物，才能够越活越勇敢。

但活久了你会发现：自己越来越不像真正的自己，而是一个 #穿上满身盔甲的“强人”，拥有“强”人的魄力和面具，失去了和自身感性一面的连接，掉入了深渊、受了委屈、迷失了方向，也只能自己承担、自己承受、不知道如何求助。

你会发现：

坚强也许是装出来的。

快乐也许是扮出来的。

幸福也有可能是演出来的。

那到底什么才是真正的“强人”呢？

真正的强人，是跳脱一切家庭、社会所给予的种种规范，能够真实地接受自身只是一个 #普通人物的本性本质，承认自己有失落、不开心的时候，也会有不称心、悲伤流泪的时候，是身为世间“普通人”的七情六欲，而不是一个完人。

当你演太久了“强人”，你会想要透过呐喊、反抗、挣脱、想要脱壳成为真实的“人”，而不是被规范框着无法解脱出来的“道具人”。

你学会看清这一切的演绎实相吗？

#面具人#典型的强人演绎#摆脱束缚#勇于承认自身是脆弱才能成为真正的强人

People rarely admit their own vulnerability, for family and societal norms have always taught us: one must be strong to live authentically, to face life’s challenges, and to grow increasingly courageous.

But as life goes on, you realize: you’re becoming less like your authentic self, instead transforming into a strong person clad in armor—possessing the vigor and mask of strength while losing touch with your emotional core. When you fall into an abyss, suffer injustice, or lose your way, you bear it alone, enduring without knowing how to ask for help.

You’ll discover:

Strength may be an act.

Happiness might be feigned.

Even joy could be an act.

So what truly defines a “strong person”?

A genuine strong person breaks free from all societal and familial norms, embracing their core nature as an #ordinary individual. They acknowledge their moments of loss and unhappiness. They accept their frustrations and tears. This is the full spectrum of human emotion inherent to being an “ordinary person” in this world. They do this rather than striving for perfection.

When you’ve played the “strong person” for too long, you’ll yearn to break free. You might do this through shouting, rebellion, and struggle. You’ll want to shed the shell and become a genuine “human.” You won’t want to be a “prop” trapped within rigid norms.

Have you learned to see through this life performance on stage ?

#MaskedPerson #BreakingFree #OnlyByAdmittingVulnerabilityCanOneBecomeTrulyStrong